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LOVE EQ™: When Words Don't Work Because Your Emotions Are Taking Over
Are you tired of walking on eggshells in your own home?
You're doing everything you can to keep the peace—biting your tongue, managing your tone, trying not to "make it worse"—but the distance keeps growing.
You feel unseen, unsupported, and resentful… and then guilty for feeling that way.
Because your life looks fine on the outside. Your partner isn't a monster. But inside, you're slowly shutting down.
The Real Problem No One's Talking About
You don't need to work harder at communication. You need to break the emotional pattern that's keeping you stuck.
Here's what's actually happening: You're not in communication mode—you're in protection mode.
Your brain scans for danger 4 times per second. The moment it senses rejection or criticism, your prefrontal cortex shuts off. You flip your lid. And suddenly you're blaming, shutting down, or people-pleasing like a child.
This isn't your fault. But it IS why nothing has worked.
That's Why Love EQ™ is Different
We don't give you more communication scripts. We rewire your nervous system to feel safe enough to connect.
✅ Decode your unique emotional blueprint (the pattern running 95% of your reactions)
✅ Regulate using neuroscience-backed tools (that work in 90 seconds or less)
✅ Retrain your body to feel safe in love (so you can lead instead of react)
When your nervous system shifts—everything else follows.
INTRODUCING
A Powerful 6-Module Experience to Create Healing, Connection and Deep Inner Peace in Your Relationships Based on the Highly Sought-After Reveal.Heal.Transform™ Method.
The Reveal.Heal.Transform.™ Method
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REVEAL Your Hidden Emotional Patterns
Finally see what's been sabotaging you for years
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HEAL Using Brain & Body-Based Tools
Somatic regulation, guided meditations, subconscious rewiring
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TRANSFORM How You Lead Love
From reaction to response, from control to connection
Result: You become the Pattern Innovator™ your relationship has been waiting for.
Your 6-Module Transformation Roadmap
This program is self-paced, listen while walking, driving or cooking. No overwhelm. Just rewiring.
Click the arrows next to each title to see more detailed descriptions.
Module 1: Build emotional safety & self-compassion (so you can do this work without shame)
Everyone deserves a cherishing relationship...and that includes the relationship with yourself.
You'll discover:
- How to release guilt, shame and self-criticism so that you can feel a deep inner peace and confidence in yourself, your voice and your decisions.
- Learn how to lean into your loving strength to hold yourself strong even during difficult times.
- Cultivate an ability to maintain a calm mind with mental and emotional stability so that you can open your heart to love without fear of hurt.
Module 2: Decode your patterns (the "aha moment" that changes everything)
You'll reveal the destructive relational patterns that keep showing up in your relationship, so that you can stop walking on eggshells, learn how to reconnect with your partner, and stop the constant fighting once and for all!
You'll discover:
- Ever wonder, "Why do we keep having this same argument over and over again?" You're not alone, learn how to identify the destructive pattern that keeps you on the tiresome emotional rollercoaster, and how to conquer it!
- Learn the one key process that will save you 6-months of couple's therapy, and give you clarity on why your partner is acting the way their acting!
- Tired of feeling like distant roommates instead of loving partners? Discover how your past is keeping you from true connection and how to fix it NOW!
Module 3: Break Free of Resentment (so you can start to let love in again)
Resentments and past hurts are the #1 relationship killers! Learn how to break free of these resentments so you can open your heart up to love and closeness again.
You'll discover:
- Unlock positivity and healing in your relationship and in your heart so you can knock down the walls between you and your partner.
- The 3 Step process for releasing resentment and blame so you can finally stop the cycle of "relational destruction"
- A powerful method for opening your heart to love without fearing hurt and retaliation so that you can feel safe, heard and seen in your relationship.
Module 4: Untangling Anger at the brain & body level (so it starts to release for good!)
Anger is a powerful and needed emotion. However, when it comes out in flares, hot tears, and explosions, it will ruin our relationships and any chance for us to feel heard or understood.
You'll discover:
- Powerful tools to understand what is hiding underneath of the anger, so you can use this emotion for intimate change rather than destruction.
- Ever feel like anger just takes over your body and you have no control over it? Learn how to calm this rage so you can feel grounded and move back into a space of love and compassion.
- Stop walking on eggshells! Understand how to deal with your partners anger in a way that leads to connection instead of more yelling and days of withdraw.
Module 5: Heal anxiety, stress & shame at the neurological level (not just manage them)
Stress, overwhelm, fears and anxiety push love and intimacy away.
You'll discover:
- Skills and exercises to identify triggers and fears so you can overcome them and move back into connection.
- Get the brain-based tools to calm your body and brain, stop the ruminating and spiraling thoughts, and move into a deep inner peace.
- So many women take on the emotional load of the family and the relationship. It's time to learn how to let go of the heavy weight.
Module 6: Lead with loving power (co-create connection without begging)
All relationships go through harmony, disharmony and repair. Unfortunately, most of us get stuck in disharmony and have a hard time moving back into connection. Until now!
You'll discover:
- How to stop an argument in it's track and repair quickly so that you can move back into connection and harmony fast!
- The ONE mindset hack that will ignite the passion and intimacy in your marriage.
- What to do when your partner is defensive, angry or completely shut down.
- How to get your partner to open up emotionally.
When You Master Your Emotions, Everything Improves:
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Your peace (no more 3am replaying conversations)
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Your partnership (he starts leaning in instead of pulling away)
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Your parenting (you stop yelling and start modeling)
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Your power (you lead love instead of chasing it)
Two Types of Women Read This Page:
Type 1 thinks: "This sounds too good to be true. I'll keep trying to fix this with better communication."
Type 2 thinks: "Wait... this makes so much sense. Maybe my nervous system really is the missing piece."
Type 2 women often see shifts within weeks. Type 1 women tend to stay stuck in the same patterns.
Where do you see yourself?
This approach isn't right for everyone, and that's okay.
This might not be for you if:
- You're hoping he'll change first before you invest more energy
- You prefer focusing on external strategies over internal shifts
- You're not ready to explore the emotional side of relationships
This could be perfect for you if:
- You're curious about leading your relationship differently
- You want to feel more grounded and secure within yourself
- You're ready to release emotional burdens that aren't truly yours
You have some choices to consider:
Path 1: Continue with your current approach and see where it leads.
Path 2: Try another communication-focused program and hope for different results.
Path 3: Explore how your emotional patterns might be the key to everything shifting.
One of these paths opens up new possibilities.
READY TO START YOUR LOVE EQ JOURNEY?
Here's what you get when you enroll in the Love EQ Program:
6 On-Demand video modules for no-fluff, transformational learning. [$1800 value]
6 Pre-Recorded Implementation Zoom Calls with Valerie where we will come together as a community to dive deeper into the week's topic and anchor in each lesson. [$600 value]
6 Transformational Audios that work with the subconscious mind to uncover blocks and reprogram your mind & body for success! [$600 Value]
Lifetime access to all of the program content and recorded calls so you can revisit the trainings at any time. [PRICELESS]
PLUS all of these bonuses
THE LOVVE CODES
Learn the 5 energetic codes that will open you up to receiving a deeper, more intimate connection with yourself and others. ($222 Value)
5 STEPS TO IGNITING YOUR SEXUAL ENERGY
Feel sexy again, breakfree of fears around sexuality and get turned on in the bed and in life! ($555 Value) (ONLY FOR PAY IN FULL MEMBERS)
The Women Already Inside Love EQ™ Are Saying:
We are more committed and closer than ever.
"After working with Valerie our marriage just works so much better. We don't raise our voices at each other anymore - and we resolve problems much quicker, our anxieties have almost disappeared and we don't get defensive anymore.
Now, we can focus on creating success & happiness in the rest of our life now that we are secure and happy with our relationship!
We have reinvested in our relationship, we are more committed and closer than ever!"
I have my best friend back and I didn't feel that for a long time.
We struggled with communication and disconnection. I tried lots of other programs but they weren't really dealing with the underlying issues. And that only gets you so far until you start really building resentment because you can't be authentic and you just have to try to act like everything's okay. And then of course the countless relationship books I read, and nothing worked.
Valerie's coaching and program has been life-changing. Communication is easy. I feel like we understand each other. I just feel like we have our connection back and we continue to work on it. I have my best friend back and I didn't feel that for a long time.
This Is My Emotional Relationship System That Has Changed Marriages & Families Across the World
PAY IN FULL:
$555 USD
$277 USD
BEST VALUE
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Instant & lifetime access to step by step trainings on how to master your relationship emotions for connection and deep inner peace. [$1800 Value]
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Instant & lifetime access to step by step trainings on how to master your relationship emotions for connection and deep inner peace. [$1800 Value]
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Access to 6 pre-recorded implementation coaching calls with Valerie [$1200 Value]
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Access to 6 Transformational Audios that work with the subconscious mind to uncover blocks and reprogram your mind & body for success! [$600 Value]
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Access to the 5 energetic codes that will open you up to receiving a deeper, more intimate connection with yourself and others. ($222 Value)
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Access to the 5 steps to igniting your sexual energy with internationally recognized Sexual Alchemy Coach, Cori Watson ($555 Value)
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Lifetime access to all resources and trainings
PAYMENT PLAN:
$197 USD
$99 USD
PER MONTH FOR 3 MONTHS
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Instant & lifetime access to step by step trainings on how to master your relationship emotions for connection and deep inner peace. [$1800 Value]
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Instant & lifetime access to step by step trainings on how to master your relationship emotions for connection and deep inner peace. [$1800 Value]
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Access to 6 pre-recorded implementation coaching calls with Valerie [$1200 Value]
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Access to 6 Transformational Audios that work with the subconscious mind to uncover blocks and reprogram your mind & body for success! [$600 Value]
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Access to the 5 energetic codes that will open you up to receiving a deeper, more intimate connection with yourself and others. ($222 Value)
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Access to the 5 steps to igniting your sexual energy with internationally recognized Sexual Alchemy Coach, Cori Watson ($555 Value)
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Lifetime access to all resources and trainings
Meet Val
Valerie Kolick, master relationship coach, is a nationally recognized therapist-turned-mentor for high-achieving women and couples ready to break toxic emotional cycles and lead powerful, love-fueled relationships—without begging, settling, or dragging their partners to therapy.
Known as the creator of the Reveal. Heal. Transform.™ method and founder of Happily in Love™, Valerie has helped hundreds of women transform their marriages from simmering resentment and survival mode into soft, sovereign, magnetic partnerships. Her signature process blends psychology, somatic healing, relational life therapy (RLT) and emotional pattern rewiring to create lasting connection—even when only one partner is willing to do the work.
Valerie’s content, programs, and tools have become a movement for women reclaiming leadership in their love lives, healing deep attachment wounds, and becoming the Pattern Innovator™ their families have waited for.
If you want to shift your relationship fast, without losing yourself—or waiting on someone else to “finally get it”—you’re in the right place. This is love, redefined.
You're Ready. It's Your Turn.
You've carried the emotional weight long enough.
You don't need permission. You don't need him to change first.
You just need the right tools—and 6 weeks of commitment.
Your nervous system is ready. Your relationship is waiting.
Every day you wait is another day stuck in the same emotional loop. Your future self is begging you to start today.
Join LoveEQ™ and become the Pattern Innovator™ your relationship needs.
QUESTIONS? Send me an email valerie@valeriekolick.com
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