Happily In Love Short

The Happily In-Love Experience (TM)

My groundbreaking VIP Group coaching program for repairing, reviving and reigniting your relationship using the power of brain science, powerful exercises, and an easy to follow step-by-step process to ensure the healthy, happy and secure relationship you desire no matter how broken your relationship may feel right now.
Discover how women across the world are saving their marriages quickly...even if their husband has checked out or refuses therapy.

START YOUR JOURNEY TODAY

You desire a relationship that makes you feel cherished, supported and in-love.

Not one where you fight all the time, feel like you're walking on eggshells, and there is a gaping wound where connection and love used to be. You want intimacy, passion, deep meaningful conversations and fun together again.

So many high-achieving and successful women are sent to me from other relationship therapist and coaches when nothing else seemed to work. They often feel hopeless, angry, and believe they've tried everything to fix their marriage...but they're not quite ready to give up. They want to make a last-ditch effort before separating, resigning to an unhappy relationship forever, or signing the divorce papers. They just don't know what else to do.

The Happily In Love Program will give you the tools, hands-on coaching, and know-how to fix your relationship and get the loving, supportive, and authentic marriage you deserve.

This exclusive program will help you to gain clarity on what you AND your partner truly need in your relationship to ensure it not only survives - but thrives.

You'll discover the hidden broken patterns that are sabotaging your relationship now and keeping you from true, authentic connection. And you'll get a 5-step process to heal the pain and resentments that are clouding your love.

Finally, I teach you how to improve your communication, set healthy boundaries, raise your confidence and self-love, and give you the intimacy skills that will make your partner fall back in-love and virtually divorce-proof your relationship.

JOIN HAPPILY IN LOVE EXPERIENCE TODAY

"My husband has changed through the process of me changing and I didn't have to force or push it. I feel more empowered and more open as a person because I'm not hiding behind the hurt and pain anymore. This is the most powerful program and it's 100% worth the time, money and energy because of the happiness and joy that comes from it."

WENDY BERTAGNOLE

"I've had so many amazing changes through this program. My marriage has improved, we don't yell anymore. I feel safe and secure in my relationship and because of that I sleep better, have less anxiety and can go after my dreams. I never dreamed this life was possible for me!"

AMANDA BARTLETT

I'm Valerie Kolick, M.A.

My mission is to help you save your marriage and create a connected, passionate and loving relationship for you, your partner and your family.

I've spent almost two decades and close to $1Million in education, research, and mentorship to help women transform their relationships when their partners are resistant to change.

I'm essentially your one-stop shop (that's why my clients pay me the big bucks). I have extensive experience in relationship and couples counseling/psychology, trauma healing, neuropsychology, brain-working recursive therapy, tapping, somatic healing, meditation/hypnosis, and subconscious reprogramming.

I got all of this training because I've been there. In a painful and lonely relationship with a man who wasn't interested in therapy...but I valued marriage, him, and our children's happiness.

So, I decided I wasn't going to wait for my husband to change before I could find my happy. So I used my training to completely transform my marriage quickly! 20 years later and we're still "in-love".

I believe rapid transformation can happen when you have the right tools...and I've seen it happen countless times with a 90% success rate.

And I want to give as many women as possible this step-by-step plan. Unfortunately, my appointments are booked out almost a year, and not everyone can afford the 5-figure investment in private coaching.

That's why I've distilled my processes, strategies and tools into this step-by-step program...and the results are mind-blowing!!

INTRODUCING

The Happily In Love Experience

16 Weekly LIVE Group Coaching Calls

On these live group calls, held via zoom, you'll be able to ask ME (Valerie) specific questions and get coaching from me in real time. I'm known for my rapid coaching where you see life-altering results in just minutes instead of years of therapy!

3-6 Bite Sized Training Videos Per Module

Each Module has 3-6 Bite-Sized Training Videos so you get exactly what you need with none of the fluff.

Implementation Workbooks

Clarity comes from writing, and knowing comes from doing. That's why each module will come with journalling prompts, activities, and actions to ensure you are implementing everything you are learning.

Meditations & Guided Visualizations

Change can be tough and our brain doesn't like it. That's why I'm giving you brain-based meditations and guided visualizations that will ensure change is easy, quick and happens at a subconscious level.

The Rapid Relationship

Transformation Method (TM)

Discover the Broken Patterns * Change The Patterns * Reignite the Relationship

Remember, the Rapid Relationship Transformation Method (TM) is not a typical method - which means you're not going to get "typical" results! Every step is tested and validated, so that by the time you complete the program, you have the relationship you truly desire!

**NOTE: If you miss any of these steps or any of the broken patterns you may not get the desired results. The Happily In Love program GUARANTEES you don't miss anything!

Personal Patterns

Module 1: The Relationship Mindset: Get Your Head On Right

Limiting beliefs and sabotaging thoughts can keep you stuck and spinning your wheels in your relationship. This step helps you to release these negative patterns so you can step into your relationship healing with clarity and peace.

Reprogram and rewire your brain with 7 powerful questions that you can use to feel more in-control, happier and fulfilled immediately!
Remove dangerous shoulds and expectations that are sabotaging your relationship
Elevate your positive energy to help you remove stress and overwhelm and start building joy, and peace in your relationship and life
Learn how to break into your subconscious programming and change your thoughts, emotions and behaviors quickly. You know what happens when you change your behaviors? You change your circumstances!!
Discover the 6 common energy blocks holding you back from passion and connection and explore the world of energy psychology to help save your relationship.
Uncover the sneaky unhealthy relationship patterns that may be secretly destroying your relationship and your own inner peace - and get rid of them!
Learn how to cope when your partner is already emotionally or physically gone.

Module 2: Feel Adored and Cherished

Want your partner to adore and cherish you? Well, you've got to start loving yourself even more! This is the part in the journey where you release your self-doubts and step into your power and confidence!

Learn how to decipher you and your partner’s actions and behaviors so that you can start living more peacefully together and understand one another more.
Raise your self-esteem and confidence (which also makes you even sexier to your partner - and vice-versa!)
By the end of Module 3 you're going to feel more confident, hopeful, and you'll have the exact tools and steps to create a loving and peaceful relationship (with your partner & others in your life)
You'll also get :
- Your Relational Pattern Guide
- Transformative "Self-Esteem Puzzle" exercise
- The Judgment Challenge
- Powerful "Acting As If" Daily Habit

Module 3: Becoming Brave and Kind While Setting Boundaries

Feel like a doormat sometimes? Holding on to lots of resentments? Feel like you've completely shut down (or your partner has?). These are all boundary issues. When you set healthy boundaries you teach others how to treat you!!

I'll help you discover your subconscious blocks and show you how to:

Set healthy boundaries so that you can create a true, authentic, loving and safe connection and intimacy in your relationship
The exact words and phrases to use when setting healthy boundaries through the Healthy Boundary Playbook
Boundary meditations that will help you let down walls, open up to love, and bring back vulnerability to relationship AND keep you safe from hurt and let-downs.
Discover how to stop getting triggered when your partner is angry, defensive or passive aggressive.

By the end of Module 3 you're going to feel more confident, hopeful, and you'll have the exact tools and steps to create a loving and peaceful relationship (with your partner & others in your life)

Relational Patterns

Module 4: When I Do This, He Does That!

Every relationship has it's own dance. Moves of push and pull, pursue and withdraw, negativity and blame. These are patterns of negative interactions that create distance in your relationship. In this Module I'm going to show you how to find the broken dance of your relationship and what actions need to be taken to change that dance.

I'll help you to release subconscious broken patterns and:

Become crystal clear on the biggest challenges in your relationship using the "Rose Colored Glasses" exercise.
You'll discover how your family of origin, and your partner's family is currently affecting your relationship and how you can break the (often unhealthy) pattern.
Learn how to correct the relational dance and create new moves in your relationship that create connection instead of arguments and shut-down.

Module 5: Why Does He Do What He Does? And How To I Get Him To Change?

In this module you will start building a Connection Blueprint for you and your partner. The blueprint will show you exactly why you and your partner act the way you do in the relationship and how to fix each individual challenge. We start with understand the attachment needs and fears showing up in your relationship. When you understand and meet these needs and squash these fears is creates safety and compassion in your relationship.

Module 6: I'm Tired of Being His Mom! (or being treated like a child!)

Here you'll understand where there are power imbalances that are causing conflict and hurt in your relationship. Generally, one partner will act from a place of being "better than" and the other will go to a place of feeling "less than". This can also show up in feeling like the "mom" or the "child" in a relationship. True intimacy and connection happens when both partners can stand toe-to-toe in love and support. You'll discover where you and your partner land on this spectrum and how to balance the power so you are both equal contributors to the relationship.

Module 7: Stop The Aruging and Start Connecting

In this module, you'll discover the biggest mistakes most couples make in their communication and relationship. You'll also break down your typical communication patterns and finally understand why he gets defensive, or why you shut down and how you can break these poor communication patterns forever. You'll learn how to communication (with words, actions, and emotions) to your partner in a way where they can receive it so you both can feel heard and understood. No more walking on eggshells!

Module 8: Get the Support and Intimacy You Desire

Your partner doesn't NEED you to wash more dishes or give him more pats on the back. What you and your partner truly need are safety, security, connection and enduring love. At some point in your relationship one or more of these needs weren't being met and that's when the discord starts. When our relational needs aren't met in our relationship we try to get them back by controlling, begging, or shutting down. You'll discover what needs are missing from your partner and from you - so you can fix this quickly and stop the emotional negative spiral and creates a place for growth and resiliency for both you and your partner.

Emotional Patterns

Module 9: Repairing the Bonds of Trust

Did you know there are over 21 ways to break trust in your relationship (other than infidelity and lying)? Things that you might be doing right now. This is what my mentor Terry Real calls "small murders" and this is how passion is lost in any relationship. In this module you'll discover all the ways trust has been broken in your relationship, learn how to stop doing these things, and how to repair the broken trust. I'll also give you a tool to get your partner to stop lying. By the end of this module - you'll have a clear Connection Blueprint created for both you and your partner!!

Module 10: Stop Repeating the Past Over and Over

"The unresolved issues of our children within are most evident when we begin to examine the conflicts we experience in our romantic relationship." - Cathryn Taylor

Whatever you learned about intimacy in childhood - you will repeat it in adulthood. If you saw your parents fight, your inner child will equate violence with love. If your father had many affairs, you may fear closeness because it equals hurt or infidelity. In this module, you'll discover what inner child wounds are showing up in your relationship and we'll heal them once and for all. This will allow you to no longer be triggered by your partner and you will move to a higher and more spiritual way of loving. (Added Bonus: this helps to also heal your partner!!)

Module 11 & 12: Mending the Wounds and Becoming Free of Resentments

Imagine a funnel filled with dirt. Now, imagine trying to pour clear water through that funnel. What happens? The clear water turns muddy and murky. The dirt is all of the hurt, burdens and resentments you've been carrying around and the water is love. No matter how much love you pour it will never truly be pure until the hurt and resentments are gone. I'm giving you a 5-step process to heal, forgive your partner, and forgive yourself. The amount of freedom, peace, and joy you feel at the end of this is indescribable.

Ever heard the saying, "Hurt People Hurt People?". Luckily the opposite is also true, "Healed People, Heal People"! Imagine how powerful this will be for you and your relationship!

Reignite Passion & Intimacy

Module 13: Connection. Connection. More Connection.

At this point of the journey, you are on the road to restoration in your marriage. You're feeling closer, more attuned, and connected with one another. In this module you'll discover how to listen, speak and negotiate in a way that adds passion, vulnerability and authenticity into your relationship. This is the breeding ground for divorce-proofing your marriage and ensuring the passionate love you desire.

Module 14: Ramping Up The Passion

Start creating daily habits of passion, intimacy and desire. You'll get tips and tricks for keeping your relationship alive, fun and sexy!

Gina Stasowski

Wife, Mom of 3, Corporate

THE turning point in my life...

"My life is completely and totally different. I went from feeling powerless to powerful beyond measure. Valerie’s coaching is invaluable. I truly feel that this was THE turning point in my life thus far. Valerie has truly changed my life and the lives of my husband and children forever."

Carol Clark

Nurse

We are closer than ever!

"After working with Valerie our marriage just works so much better. We don't raise our voices at each other anymore - and we resolve problems much quicker, our anxieties have almost disappeared and we don't get defensive anymore. Now, we can focus on creating success & happiness in the rest of our life now that we are secure and happy with our relationship! We have reinvested in our relationship, we are more committed and closer than ever!"

Andrea Colburn

Autism Advocate

Rediscovered my love...

"I’m a stay at home mom to twins and a child with autism. I was constantly busy but felt unfulfilled. After the program, I feel clearer in my purpose and confident. I rediscovered my love of writing and am using my writing to create policy change for my son and other children with disabilities! If you feel like you are just surviving but not thriving, I highly recommend taking this course."

Wendy Smith

Teacher

It will change your life!

"The class has made me a stronger and more confident woman. I believe in myself and learned how to give myself a break. I would recommend this program to anyone who is questioning if they are living the fullest life they can, wondering if there's more for them, and how to get it. Be open and go for it, it will change your life."

Brenda Lomeli-Cruz

Author The Last 10-Pounds

Helped me shift right away!

"Even just one session with Valerie gave me a new level of insight to what has been keeping me stuck and keeping me from getting the results I want in both my relationship and finances. She gave me a tool that was powerful in helping me shift my behaviors right away!"

Amanda Tress

Digital Marketer, Biz Powerhouse

Finally Overcame Relationship Challenges!

"Working with Valerie was a game changer for both my business and personal life. She helped me identify some items that were preventing me from experiencing happiness and success, and helped me overcome them. Valerie truly cares about her clients and is committed to doing what it takes to help them be successful. I had a record revenue month after meeting with Valerie and I am so grateful for the opportunity to coach with her."

Start Your Happily In Love Journey Today

Choose Your Plan

After you choose your plan and click the "Start Now" Button, you'll be taken to a secure-checkout form. Enter your information and you'll be taken to a page to get immediate access to the Happily In Love Program and all of your bonuses!

VIP Package

One Payment of

$3000

Includes the Happily In Love program, all of the group coaching calls, bonuses AND One Private 1:1 Coaching Call with Valerie, and Unlimited Text/Voxer support with Valerie through the 14-weeks

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Elite Package

6 monthly payments of

$597/mo

Includes the Happily In Love program, all of the group coaching calls and bonuses

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Plus, Join Today and You'll Receive These

SIX Exclusive Enrollment Bonuses

(Total Value = $6,591)

BONUS ONE

The Passionista Package

Total Value = $497

Want more passion in the bedroom? Get the secrets to reigniting the passion, feeling sexy, and asking for what you want for a mind-blowing experience. In this package you'll receive: (1) Rekindling the Passion (even if desire is low); (2) How to Talk About Sex With Your Partner; and (3) Turning Your Partner On

(Released by August 15th)

BONUS TWO

Brain-Based Transformational Tools

Total Value = $3000

One of the reasons this is the most powerful program you'll ever experience is because it changes you from a deep level. Each week I'll give you a transformative tool such as a meditation, tapping script, guided imagery, or hypnosis that will ENSURE long-lasting results and rapid transformation at the identity level.

BONUS THREE

5-Day Communication Jump Start & 101 Conversation Starters

Total Value = $197

Need help quick and right now? No problem! I'm giving you a 5-day Relationship Rescue Kit that will jump start your relationship repair quickly. This bonus will jump start your progress and I give you my famous 101 Conversations Starters that you can use at dinner tonight to improve connection!

BONUS FOUR

24/7 Community & Support

Total Value: Priceless

The women in my programs say the community is a magical part of the program. You'll be part of a private facebook community and a LIVE community that will support you, share with you, and be there when you need a hand or a celebration. You've got support 24/7!!

BONUS FIVE

The Anti-Stess Package

Total Value: $197

A struggling relationship is one of the most stressful events we'll ever go through in our lives. That's why I want to give you a toolkit filled with tricks, tips, meditations and more that will help you lower stress and anxiety quickly.

BONUS SIX

The Family Relationship Package

Total Value: $397

The quality of our lives is the quality of our relationships. That's why you need to ensure all of your relationships are in great shape. I've put together a powerful package for you that includes: (1) How to Get On the Same Page with Parenting; (2) Healing the Mother/Daughter Wound; and (3) Dealing with In-Laws. The strategies you'll discover here are not sold or taught anywhere else - so don't miss this!!

90-Day Money Back Guarantee

I know that investing in yourself and your relationship can be a big decision. I'm also fully confident that the VALUE and TRANSFORMATION you will experience in this program far outweighs the price of the program. In fact, I've spent almost $1million and over two decades ensuring that this is the most effective program guaranteed to get YOU results! However, I get that it may still feel daunting to spend your hard-earned cash before you see the inside of the program. For that reason, I offer a "do the work, see the results refund policy.

Join the Happily In Love Experience today and if by the end of the 16 weeks of coaching you don't feel you've received value from the program, just email success@valeriekolick.com. Show my team and I that you have completed all of the assignments and either been on each week's live coaching call or watched the replay, and we'll give you your money back, no further questions asked.

Meet Your Future Happily In Love Friends!

...FROM LOST & UNLOVED TO HAPPILY IN LOVE...

How Lydia Went From Wanting to Leave Her Marriage to Falling Back In Love

...FROM SEPARATED TO HAPPILY IN LOVE...

How Amy Went From Hopeless, Desperate and Separated to Reignite A Love With Her Husband

...FROM DISCONNECTED & FRUSTRATED TO HAPPILY IN LOVE...

How Kris Went From Feeling Disconnected and Lonely to Intimate Connection

...FROM TRAPPED TO HAPPILY IN LOVE...

How K. Went From Feeling Hopeless To Becoming The Woman She Was Always Meant To Be

...FROM STUCK TO HAPPILY IN LOVE...

How Wendy Went From Struggling With Communication & Connection To Creating Powerful Change In Her Life & Relationship

...FROM STUCK TO HAPPILY IN LOVE...

How Amanda Went From Struggling With Connection To Reaching Her Dreams In Her Life & Relationship

Renee Dolphin

I feel liberated and FREE...

”Before working with Valerie, I struggled with lots of resentments and anger in my relationships and through past hurts. Now I have a deeper and more loving relationship with my husband and family and I have discovered so much about myself that has healed me in countless ways. I feel liberated and free from my past.”

Ashley Grant

Professional Writer, www.famousashleygrant.com

She unlocked issues I didn't even know were there!

"In just one hour Valerie had me balling my eyes out in the best way possible. She unlocked issues I didn't even realize were there and helped me explore how I was feeling and why those feelings were actually lies. I would highly recommend working with her!"

Cat Sagar

Yoga & Meditation Teacher, www.eatstretchnap.com

The type of coaching, therapy and services that Valerie provides is life-changing...

Valerie helped me get through some of the blocks I was having around perfectionism and overwhelm. In a 1 hour session we were able to go much, much deeper than I expected and she helped me uncover some really interesting stuff surrounding my fear of success and what success means to me. The type of coaching, therapy and services that Valerie provides is life-changing. Valerie has made a huge impact on my life and future!

Lina Caravjal

Teacher

Helped me to bring clarity and light into my life!

Valerie helped me to uncover my belief system that has held me back from living my true potential. By asking questions on specific areas and times of my life and connecting the answer with my current situations, Valerie helped me to realize my patterns of unconscious thinking that have been playing the game and creating my reality. Infinite thanks for helped me to bring clarity and light into my life!!

Alissa G.

From eggshells to best friends again...

Before working with Val my husband and I weren’t connecting, I didn’t feel loved, and I was anxious feeling like I was always walking on eggshells. I just wanted my best friend back and felt lost on how to do that.

Within just weeks of joining her program, my husband told me how in-love he was with me and was even leaving me little love-letters. And weeks later I’m sure I have my best friend back and we are connecting on a much deeper level.

I’ve experienced breakthrough after breakthrough and this program has given me the power to truly change our relationship and my own happiness from the inside out. We have gotten to the root of the challenges.

Now, I feel lighter and more loved! If you’re feeling lost, disconnected or even like you’re no longer “in-love” with your partner – Val’s programs are a no-brainer!

Lisa S.

Better Communication and Overcame a Decade of Anxiety

"I was really hesitant to invest in Valerie’s program. I didn’t know if I would get what I expected to out of it. But starting in the first module I was seeing major aha moments! The communication has completely turned around in my marriage and my husband has even seen my change. It’s been a mind opening experience know that I have control over my experiences. I am now off of my stress meditation that I had been on for two years! That’s BIG!"

Ok, Let's Recap

When you enroll in the Happily In Love Experience, you'll receive everything you need to fix your relationship quickly (even if your partner is resisting change). Including...

The 14 Essential Step-by-Step Training Modules every women needs to fix broken relationship patterns and create a healthy, happy and deeply connected relationship.
Templates, Exercises, Quizes and Brain-Based Tools for each section of your program.
Over 14 Meditations, Guided Imageries and Subconscious Reprogramming Tools for rapid results and brain-centered transformation.
My complete 5-step training to heal from past hurts and wounds so you can finally be free of the pain and act from love instead of fear and hurt.
Countless MIND & BODY TOOLS guaranteed to move you into action and peace.
14 Weeks of Transformational Coaching with Valerie Kolick, expert in neuropscyhology, rapid transformation and relationship change.
The 6 Mind-Blowing Bonuses that will help you relieve stress, add passion in the bedroom, ignite desire, fix family relationships, get on the same page with parenting, and much more!
And much, much more!

This makes everything you get well of $12,000 in value. And you can get it all for just $597 today!

Start Your Happily In Love Journey Today

Choose Your Plan

After you choose your plan and click the "Start Now" Button, you'll be taken to a secure-checkout form. Enter your information and you'll be taken to a page to get immediate access to the Happily In Love Program and all of your bonuses!

VIP Package

One Payment of

$3000

Includes the Happily In Love program, all of the group coaching calls, bonuses AND One Private 1:1 Coaching Call with Valerie, and Unlimited Text/Voxer support with Valerie through the 14-weeks

START NOW

Elite Package

6 monthly payments of

$597/mo

Includes the Happily In Love program, all of the group coaching calls and bonuses

START NOW

Look What Other's Are Saying!

Start Your Happily In Love Journey Today

Choose Your Plan

After you choose your plan and click the "Start Now" Button, you'll be taken to a secure-checkout form. Enter your information and you'll be taken to a page to get immediate access to the Happily In Love Program and all of your bonuses!

VIP Package

One Payment of

$3000

Includes the Happily In Love program, all of the group coaching calls, bonuses AND One Private 1:1 Coaching Call with Valerie, and Unlimited Text/Voxer support with Valerie through the 14-weeks

START NOW

Elite Package

6 monthly payments of

$597/mo

Includes the Happily In Love program, all of the group coaching calls and bonuses

START NOW

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

If you can't find the answer to your question below, e-mail Valerie at valerie@valeriekolick.com or text me at 301-685-0807

What makes this program and all of the testimonials I’ve seen so successful?

The Happily In Love program was specifically crafted to help women who want to have the most fulfilling and happiest relationship (even if their partner isn't willing to change). What makes THIS program different than any other program (or therapist) you've ever worked with can be broken into three distinct reasons:

#1. MINDSET & PATTERN CHANGE - Beginning with an OBSESSION with why couple's counseling didn't work more than 50% of the time, and why some succeed and others fail, I set out to create a program that will help you cause a BREAKTHROUGH in results for yourself and your relationship. I've spent hundreds of thousands of dollars learning the latest neuroscience and relationship techniques and science to help you rewire your brain for incredible results in your relationship and life!

#2. A FOCUS ON THE 5% - Inside HIL, I give you ONLY the tools, techniques, and resources YOU NEED to succeed. I don't waste your time on filler and junk that doesn't move you or your relationship forward. You get the 5% of activities that generate 95% of your results!

#3. LOVE BETWEEN & LOVE WITHIN - You'll find a lot of programs out there that focus on building your relationship (the love between) that mostly focuses on "intimacy skills". You'll also find tons of programs that focus on building your self-love, confidence, or mindset (the love within). The problem is YOU CAN'T CREATE A HEALTHY, LOVING RELATIONSHIP without both of these pieces. AWIC is the ONLY program that combines Love Within and Love Between so you can create a WHOLE relationship!

What's the time commitment?

Just like anything in life - the more you put in the more you’ll get out of it. My most successful clients spend 10-20 minutes 5-days per week going through the programs, and then show up to both of the LIVE monthly group coaching calls. However, all of the programs are self-paced, so you can decide how quickly you want to move through the work. Ultimately, if your relationship and your happiness is a priority in your life - ya gotta MAKE THE TIME for it!

Will the live group coaching calls be recorded? How will they take place?

The coaching calls will take place via zoom, and will be scheduled weekly at times that fit the majority schedules. These LIVE coaching calls are powerful! But, hey, if you can't make it live - you can send me your question in advance and catch the recording at later time.

Also, I respect your privacy - so at any point when you are being coached - you can ask me to turn the recording off and I will do so.

What if I'm already separated from my partner?

About 50% of my clients were separated when they joined the program. They decided no matter what happened in their relationship they were going to put EVERYTHING into becoming the best version of themselves.

Some of them have since reunited with their partners and have a stronger relationship than ever before. Some have decided that the relationship was unhealthy and have completely ended the relationship. ALL of them are happier, more fulfilled and proud of themselves for the changes and transformations they created in their lives.

I can't promise you that your partner will come running back to you (or that you would even want them to), what I can promise you is that you will have the confidence, self-love, clarity and inner peace you NEED to reignite your current relationship, let go of it with confidence, or to create a brand new healthy and loving relationship.

I'm interested, but I just don't have the money, time or energy right now.

If you’re still on the fence, wondering whether to take the leap, let me share one last though with you, maybe you’re thinking…

"It all sounds great, but I just don't have the money, energy, or time right now"

...then you’re not making the choice at all. You’re letting your circumstances make your choices for you.

And as you know by now, that’s not how the awesome woman operates.

You see, our “circumstances” are mostly in our heads. They’re “time and money” excuses we make because we’re not willing to step up and play a bigger game.

Love, happiness and success don’t care about your circumstances.

Success always find a way. Greatness always plays a way bigger game.

That’s what the most awesome women understand. And now, so do you.

Why should I listen to or trust what Valerie has to say?

Not only do I have the credentials (Bachelors in Psychology, Masters in Professional Counseling, Certification in Neuropsychology, Certification in Trauma Therapy, Certification in Mindsight Institute Training with Dr. Daniel Amen, two decades of research, counseling and coaching, etc.), I also used the same tools to completely transform my own life including saving my own marriage, healing from trauma, releasing anxiety, losing over 30 pounds, and travelling across the world. More importantly - I've taught these same skills and life-transforming tools to thousands of women across the world who are seeing out of this world results! You saw the testimonials right?

But, let’s be honest. I can show you everyone else’s results, I can show you the science behind the results, and I can talk until my face is blue - but you’ll never truly know until you experience the transformation yourself. It’s time to put faith into yourself and make the best decision of your life! Your future self thanks you!

Should my husband/partner do this with me?

Doesn't matter. This program is built to help women take their power back and create transformation in their relationships and lives - even if their partner isn't on board. A relationship is a system - and once one part of that system changes, the other parts must change and adapt as well.

So, it's not about getting your partner to do the program with you or to change, it's about ONE of you take action to create transformation and then allowing the safety and space for your partner to follow. That's what the Happily In Love program will do!

Do I have to be married to do the program?

Nopers. If you identify as a woman and you are in a committed relationship then I would love to have you inside of the Happily In Love experience!

There has been infidelity in our relationship, will this program still work for me?

The program will help you to move past the hurt, resentment and self-esteem number that infidelity can cause. It will also help you determine if your partner is trustworthy and if the relationship is worth trying to save.

Will it work for me if....

...my spouse isn't willing to change?

...therapy hasn't worked?

...we're already separated?

...we're not married?

...I don't have the confidence and strength to continue this struggle?

These are all valid questions, and the answer is yes, yes, and yes.

Maybe you’ve tried therapy before. Maybe you’ve read books, podcasts, soaked up free material…or maybe you’ve even spent hundreds or thousands of dollars on another course that didn’t work.

This is not just another course. The Happily In Love experience is a brain-based, heart-centered system that creates long-lasting transformation. It’s a lifestyle!

The program is a proven system with a built in community and highly effective coach that takes women from frustrated and lonely to irresistibly happy and loved.

The way I see it you have two choices (1) do nothing or (2) join HIL and take the first step towards truly transforming your relationship and life.

But you must know, if you choose nothing...then nothing changes.

BUT, if you already know that you want to repair, revive and reignite your relationship and life then your choice is obvious: join us inside HIL and start your transformation to becoming the irresistibly happy and in-love woman you know you were meant to be.

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Module 1: The Relationship Mindset: Get Your Head On Right Limiting beliefs and sabotaging thoughts can keep you stuck and spinning your wheels in your relationship. This step helps you to release these negative patterns so you can step into your relationship healing with clarity and peace.

Module 2: Feel Adored and Cherished Want your partner to adore and cherish you? Well, you've got to start loving yourself even more! This is the part in the journey where you release your self-doubts and step into your power and confidence!

Module 3: Becoming Brave and Kind While Setting Boundaries Feel like a doormat sometimes? Holding on to lots of resentments? Feel like you've completely shut down (or your partner has?). These are all boundary issues. When you set healthy boundaries you teach others how to treat you!!

Module 14: Ramping Up The Passion Start creating daily habits of passion, intimacy and desire. You'll get tips and tricks for keeping your relationship alive, fun and sexy!

What makes this program and all of the testimonials I’ve seen so successful?

What's the time commitment?

Will the live group coaching calls be recorded? How will they take place?

What if I'm already separated from my partner?

I'm interested, but I just don't have the money, time or energy right now.

Why should I listen to or trust what Valerie has to say?

Should my husband/partner do this with me?

Do I have to be married to do the program?

There has been infidelity in our relationship, will this program still work for me?

Will it work for me if....

Module 1: The Relationship Mindset: Get Your Head On Right

Limiting beliefs and sabotaging thoughts can keep you stuck and spinning your wheels in your relationship. This step helps you to release these negative patterns so you can step into your relationship healing with clarity and peace.

Module 2: Feel Adored and Cherished

Want your partner to adore and cherish you? Well, you've got to start loving yourself even more! This is the part in the journey where you release your self-doubts and step into your power and confidence!

Module 3: Becoming Brave and Kind While Setting Boundaries

Feel like a doormat sometimes? Holding on to lots of resentments? Feel like you've completely shut down (or your partner has?). These are all boundary issues. When you set healthy boundaries you teach others how to treat you!!

Module 14: Ramping Up The Passion

Start creating daily habits of passion, intimacy and desire. You'll get tips and tricks for keeping your relationship alive, fun and sexy!