Your Dream Relationship & Life Are Waiting For You!
Master the Rapid Relationship Transformation Process and create the RIGHT patterns to fix your relationship and create the loving and passionate relationship that brings you the true love, confidence and happiness you desire - whether your partner is ready to change or not and even if you think you’ve already tried everything.
You’re Here For A Reason
Maybe you’re feeling fear and uneasiness because the partner you once loved feels more like a roommate (maybe even an enemy at times) instead of the loving, adoring and supportive partner you truly desire and deserve - and you haven’t figured out yet how to fix your relationship and create a truly loving partnership.
You’re Right. You Do Deserve To Be Happy. You Can Have The Love You Desire.
You feel like you’ve tried everything to heal and improve your relationship...but change happens for a little and then you just go back into old patterns. But my guess is since you’re reading this, you’re ready for long-lasting transformation and healing in your relationship and life.
Whether you want more passion, intimacy and connection in your relationship; or you feel like you’ve lost yourself and want to create a marriage where you can be authentically happy; or you’re already separated from your spouse and you’re ready to find true love within yourself and rekindle the relationship - wherever you are in your relationship journey, if you want to create transformation in your relationship then this is what you need to know:
Improving the quality of your relationship can profoundly transform the quality of your life.
I know this to be true firsthand. After 17 years of marriage and transforming my own marriage from struggling to thriving and helping thousands of others do the same. I can honestly say that creating a true loving and cherished intimate relationship is one of the most self-fulfilling and rewarding experiences you’ll ever create. Plus when you heal your relationship, not only do you create more inner joy, peace and happiness - but you also positively impact the lives of everyone around you (your children, your family, your neighbors, your community, etc.). Your love will spread across the world.
Which is why I’d love for you to join the Happily In Love Program. I’ll help you fast-track your relationship and life transformation so you can achieve extraordinary results and save your relationship and save years of frustration, hurt and expensive trial and error.
Here’s What You’ll Get In The Happily In Love Program
Whether you want to get your best friend back, stop the arguing and disconnection, rebuild your relationship after a devastating separation or betrayal or you are ready to rediscover your own happiness and love again, The Happily In Love program can help. This 8-week online coaching program provides the exact step-by-step process and tools that are vital to your success.
Clarity
Discover and release unhealthy and sabotaging patterns and habits that are keeping you spinning your wheels in your relationship (and life) and learn how to create new loving habits that will transform your life and relationship. Unsure if you should stay or go? You'll discover the answer and gain the confidence and tools to fix it or leave it.
Community
Get 24/7 support from an out of this world community of women just like you who are transforming their relationships and lives each and every day. You’ll always have someone to listen to you, challenge you, and hold you accountable no matter where you are in the world, or what time it is.
Training
Master the groundbreaking Rapid Relationship Transformation process and gain the skills to reprogram old habits, release past hurts, raise your confidence, gain emotional freedom, set healthy boundaries, get your needs met, improve communication and add more connection, intimacy and passion back to your relationship and life!
INTRODUCING
The Happily In Love Experience
BETTER THAN THERAPY, THE HAPPILY IN LOVE PROGRAM ISN'T A "RELATIONSHIP" COURSE LIKE ALL OF THE OTHERS YOU MAY HAVE TAKEN.
....IT'S AN 8-MODULE TRANSFORMATIONAL PROCESS & GROUP COACHING THAT WILL CHANGE YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND LIFE...
FROM STRUGGLING TO THRIVING!
(no matter where you are now and no matter if your partner participates or not!)
Let me show you what's waiting for you inside the Happily In Love Experience once you become a member...
HIL is broken down into 8 core training modules. All course materials - including videos, guided imageries, brain priming audios, energy healing videos, workbooks and more - are inside of your personal student online portal (available immediately after you enroll!)
Module 1
Reprogramming Your Relationship Mindset
Every extraordinary relationship starts with an extraordinary mindset
In this module you're going to discover how to remove your limiting beliefs, negative emotions, and thoughts that are keeping you stuck so that you can finally feel more at peace and more joyful in every area of your life.
I'll help you discover your unique limiting beliefs and show you how to:
Reprogram and rewire your brain with 7 powerful questions that you can use to feel more in-control, happier and fulfilled immediately!
Remove dangerous shoulds and expectations that are sabotaging your relationship
Elevate your positive energy to help you remove stress and overwhelm and start building joy, and peace in your relationship and life
By the end of Module 1, you'll have a solid foundation and feel ready and hopeful to create extraordinary transformation in your relationship and life.
Your Brain-based Implementation Resources & Tools
Module 2
Breaking Through The Relationship Subconscious For Ultimate Transformation
Change your world, by changing your beliefs.
This is the module where my clients see incredible and powerful breakthroughs in their lives. You will discover new insights about yourself, your partner and your relationship that will allow you to answer the questions “why do I keep doing this?” and “why does my partner act this way?”
I'll help you discover your subconscious blocks and show you how to:
Learn how to break into your subconscious programming and change your thoughts, emotions and behaviors quickly. You know what happens when you change your behaviors? You change your circumstances!!
Discover the 6 common energy blocks holding you back from passion and connection and explore the world of energy psychology to help save your relationship.
Uncover the sneaky unhealthy relationship patterns that may be secretly destroying your relationship and your own inner peace - and get rid of them!
Learn how to cope when your partner is already emotionally or physically gone.
By the end of Module 2, you'll be empowered with all of the tools you need to reprogram beliefs, thoughts and emotions so that you can release sabotaging habits in your relationship (and any part of your life)
Your Brain-based Implementation Resources & Tools
"Modules 1 & 2 were truly life changing and helped me to analyze what beliefs and thoughts I had about all the relationships in my life. I've utilized those two the most and gone back to them actually several times now. I finally feel safe with my thoughts and emotions and I'm more in control of my life. This program is an absolute no brainer." - Amy Jensen
Module 3
Self-Love & Healthy Boundaries
Love Yourself So Much Your Spouse Knows Exactly How It’s Done
All great LOVE starts and ends with Self-Love. In this module you will learn to love yourself so fiercely that your partner will know exactly how it's done. You'll also discover how to set HEALTHY boundaries that will unlock a more peaceful and connected relationship.
I'll help you discover your subconscious blocks and show you how to:
Learn how to decipher you and your partner’s actions and behaviors so that you can start living more peacefully together and understand one another more.
Raise your self-esteem and confidence (which also makes you even sexier to your partner - and vice-versa!)
Discover how your judgments of yourself and your partner may be tearing apart your relationship and how to fix this quickly!
Set healthy boundaries so that you can create a true, authentic, loving and safe connection and intimacy in your relationship
By the end of Module 3 you're going to feel more confident, hopeful, and you'll have the exact tools and steps to create a loving and peaceful relationship (with your partner & others in your life)
Your Brain-based Implementation Resources & Tools
Module 4
Emotional Freedom
The truth is, you can't have true connection with vulnerability, without true deep feelings and becoming friends with them.
You’ll become best friends with your emotions and learn how to handle anxiety, anger, and resentment. You’ll also learn how to get him to open up so that you can connect deeply.
I'll help you manage your emotions and let go of the anger, anxiety, hurt feelings and overwhelm that keeps you stuck and show you how to:
Get the tools to get in touch with your feelings and how to manage big emotions like anger, anxiety, and hurt so that you can experience more peace and joy in your relationship and life
Learn how to quickly calm anger and defensiveness quickly so it doesn’t cause disruption in your relationship.
Intimate connection comes from a sharing and accepting of one another’s inner experiences.
Discover how to get him to open up and how to share your emotions without fear of shut-down, anger or defensiveness.
By the end of Module 4 you'll be more in control of your emotions and understand when strong emotions can heal or hurt a relationship - and how to discover happiness in life and in your relationship.
Your Brain-based Implementation Resources & Tools
Module 5
Getting Your Needs Met
More passion? More respect? More help around the house? More support?
By this time in the program you have done the mindset work. You've done the emotional work. You've worked through limiting beliefs. YOU ARE PRIMED & READY TO START CREATING THE RELATIONSHIP YOU LOVE!
Want to stop the arguing and start feeling appreciated, cherished and adored?
This is your module! You’re going to learn how to get what you need and want from the relationship and you’ll learn how to become irresistible to your partner!
I'll help you get your needs met and show you how to:
Get clear on which needs are not being met in your relationship and how to get them met so you feel more fulfilled, loved and supported.
Is your partner lazy or irresponsible? A workaholic? Controlling? Non-communicative? Verbally Abusive? You’ll discover why and exactly how to help your partner change (without them even knowing).
Get the 7-step process to getting your most important needs met and watch the love flow back into your relationship and life.
By the end of Module 5 you'll feel more fulfilled, joyful, loved and connected with yourself and your partner!
Your Brain-based Implementation Resources & Tools
Module 6
Forgiveness & Rebuilding Trust
Heal from the past, revive inner peace & reignite trust in your relationship
Past hurts and resentments, betrayal and lack of trust are the biggest relationship killers. In this module you’ll discover how and when trust is being broken in your relationship and the exact steps to repair and forgive, so that you don’t risk breaking your relationship.
I'll help you discover how to rebuild trust and show you how to:
Did you know talking to your best friend about your spouse may be breaking trust in your relationship? Discover this and 12 other sneaky trust breakers that are found in almost every relationship and will slowly eat away at intimacy and passion. Once you eliminate these from your relationship things will start looking up quickly!
Learn how to finally let go of the resentments and hurts that you’re holding onto so that you can feel more at peace and move towards a hopeful and exciting future.
Discover easy and simple ways to rebuild trust in your relationship so you can feel safe and loved by your partner.
By the end of Module 6 you'll let go of emotional baggage and wounds, feel more inner peace, and be free of resentments and anger in your relationship.
Your Brain-based Implementation Resources & Tools
Module 7
Intimate Communication
Use your words to create connection and solve problems in your relationship!
You’ll discover how to be heard and understood, and learn the tools to communicate and connect at a deeper level then ever before. No more fighting, no more arguing…just understanding and peace!
I'll help you discover how to build intimacy and connection through your communication and show you how to:
Not every communication tool, technique or script will work for every couple. In fact, some commonly cited communication techniques can harm a relationship. Discover your couple communication style and preferences so you know exactly which communication tools will work best for YOUR relationship.
The secret to being heard is to first listen. Discover how to become an amazing listener and watch your partner open up and even start to listen and understand you!
Get a simple tool to decipher where your communication is going wrong so that you can change the pattern and remove arguments, silent treatments and misunderstandings quickly!
Discover the list of 20 mistakes most couples make and how to put a stop to them.
By the end of Module 7 you'll be a communication master...and never be at a loss for the right words to use in the right situation!
Your Brain-based Implementation Resources & Tools
Module 8
Adding Passion & Keeping It Hot
Get the daily habits & guides to keep your relationship fun, passionate & hot!
Discover how to keep the passion high, and the spark lit with simple daily habits and a cheat sheet for overcoming the biggest relationship challenges (i.e., sex, money, parenting, household responsibilities, etc.)
I'll help you discover how to overcome the every day disagreements, create more passion daily, and how to:
Perpetual arguments about sex, money, parenting, household responsibilities? Get cheat sheets to get on the same page and start working together (rather than against each other) on these tough issues.
Now that you have reprogrammed, repaired and revived your relationship and life - it’s time to take it to the next level. Get the next steps to create shared meaning, intimacy and passion!
Get the cheat sheet and daily checklist to create rituals that will keep your relationship passionate and hot for decades to come! Ensure you don’t fall back into old “roommate” patterns.
By the end of Module 8 you'll feel secure, happy, and adored in your relationship and in your life. Congratulations!!! You did it!!
Your Brain-based Implementation Resources & Tools
By the end of these 8 modules, you'll have completely transformed your relationship and your life. You'll be thinking, acting and feeling differently and you'll be ready to squash any challenge that comes your way. You'll feel powerful beyond measure and you'll have abundance in love, happiness, and success!
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Choose The Happily In Love Investment That's Best For You!
Check Out These Extra Love Boosters I Have For You!
The 8 main modules of HIL will completely transform your relationship and your life. But that's only the beginning.
When you join the Happily In Love Program, you also get 6 OUT OF THIS WORLD Bonus Bundles to make your progress even faster and your success even easier, and tools that simplify everything you do! Starting with...
Out Of This World Bonuses For Fast Action Takers!
Bonus 1: The 5-Day Relationship Rescue Kit
Feel like your relationship is in a really bad spot right now? I created this 5-day relationship rescue kit to kick charge your relationship and start bringing that spark back in less than 1-week! (Value $197)
Bonus 2: 101 Intimate Conversation Starters
Imagine TONIGHT at dinner having a meaningful conversation with your partner - before you even dive into the program! (Value $47)
Bonus 3: Reignite Your Desire & Sexuality with Cori Watson, Sexual Alchemy Coach
Too tired? Have a headache? Want to connect but just don't feel like physical intimacy? Cori shows you how to awaken your feminine desires and become the sexiest version of yourself! (Value $397)
Bonus 4: Ultimate Couples Communication Package
When your partner is ready to join you in this journey - which they will be - you can both listen to this amazing audio program on your commute, during your workout or in the shower - and then watch your communication transform! (Value $497)
FAST ACTION BONUS: Same Page Parenting with expert Wendy Bertagnole.
Parenting differences can cause chaos in a marriage. Get on the same page with this incredible parenting workshop with expert, former HIL client, and author of Taming Tantrums, Wendy Bertagnole! (Value $397)
You'll Have Support Every Step Of The Way In HIL
As soon as you join the program, you’ll have guidance and support personally from Valerie Kolick, M.A., professionally trained, neuropsychotherapist and relationship expert in a safe and encouraging environment.
Private Facebook Community
Within minutes or hours, you’ll have encouragement and support from a loving community of women just like you. You can share your challenges, celebrate your wins (you’ll have a lot!), grab an accountability partner, and connect with new life-long friends!
Past Coaching Calls
You’ll have access to past coaching calls where Valerie has helped women overcome struggles from anger to infidelity. So you’ll always have inspiration, guidance and wisdom at your fingertips.
Awesome Support
If you have technical issues or simply need help with a challenge, write valerie@valeriekolick.com and we’ll take care of you as quickly as possible.
Valerie is the real deal, she has cried with me, helped me finds ways to see the humor and actually laugh at myself, pushed me when I was resistant, patient with me when I needed coddling and mostly she really made me “think”. Valerie became more than just a coach, I admire her, I trust her and I have more gratitude and love I am able to express. I am finally becoming the woman I was always meant to be and I would not have been able to do that without Valerie, her program and the woman in the community. - Kaleah A.
The HIL Members-Only Community
Real Women in a Real & Supportive Community.
I know that going through relationship struggles can feel lonely...not wanting to overwhelm your friends, family or anyone else...trying to figure out everything on your own, with nowhere to go and no one to talk to when you have questions or doubts.
That never happens again once you join our Happily In Love Facebook Community.
You surround yourself with an incredible, supportive tribe. One that answers your questions, picks you up when you're down, gives you a kick in the pants when you need it, and will become your biggest cheerleaders! (I'm in the group as well answering your questions right when you need it!)
Everything is Online. No Travel - Learn At Your Own Pace.
No Rearranging Schedules, Babysitters, and Work Schedules To See A Therapist - Learn and Transform At Your Own Pace
The Happily In Love program is 100% online so you can log-on 24/7 wherever you have access to a smart phone, tablet or computer.
You have lifetime access to everything in the program and any new bonuses or materials that are added, so you can go through the material on your own schedule.
And if you’re like many of my students...you’ll quickly see that this is not a one-and-done program...this is a transformative program that you’ll refer to again and again.
You're Protected With The 100% Risk-Free Guarantee
I’m going to give you an entire 30-days - to try HIL and prove to yourself that it’ll give you the results I’m promising you. If it doesn’t then just contact me or my team and we’ll happily refund your investment.
But full disclosure...there is one catch.
You have to show me you did the work.
And the reason is simple...nothing works unless you use it.
Sometimes people think just because they invest in a course, a book, a coach or a therapist that their lives will instantly change. But 30 days later, after they haven’t even logged in or they only did the first module, they’re calling for a refund telling themselves it didn’t work.
Listen...Nothing will work if you do nothing
It took your relationship years to get where it is now...it’s going to take some time to get it back.
So if you’re not totally committed to the process and you’re not planning to do the work and take the steps...then save your money.
HOWEVER...
If you’re committed to taking action, to creating change and to having a loving, supportive and fulfilling relationship (& life), then this is an incredibly generous guarantee.
It gives you a full 130 days to go through all of the lessons. Get on the coaching calls. Implement the exercises. A full month to implement the exercises and create a loving relationship. A full month to get the help you need when you get stuck...or face challenges.
You get a full month to go from wishing and hoping to getting results. Or you get your money back!
I’m promising you the fastest path to the relationship you’ve always dreamed of. By transforming you from frustrated and lonely to fulfilled, loved and supported. And I’m giving you all of the tools, support and resources you need to get results!
But you have skin in this game too.
You have to do the work. And if you’re not willing to, you’ll be wasting both our time.
So, you use the program for up to 30-days. If you’re not absolutely amazed with how your relationship and life has transformed…
If you’re not experiencing love and life from a whole new perspective…
Just let my team or I know, show them the work you’ve done, and we’ll refund your entire investment.
If that’s not fair...if that doesn’t get rid of your fear of “will this work for me”, then I don’t know what will.
Let's Wrap It Up - Here's Everything You Get When You Enroll Today!
It’s important you understand the incredible value you’ll get in this program. These are honest estimates of the value of everything in this program since you can’t purchase anything separately.
The Core Eight Relationship Mindset Bootcamp Modules
This step-by-step 8 module system has taken over two decades and hundreds of thousands of dollars to learn, to distill, to test, and to package into an easy to follow, highly effective and somewhat magical program!
($5,000 Value)
Bonus Brain Priming, Integration Exercises, Meditations, Energy Psychology Tools, and Guided Visualizations
If you’ve ever tried to change any part of your life, your relationship or your habits before then you know how difficult it can be and how many times you revert right back to old patterns. That’s what makes my program so different - I teach you how to actually rewire and reprogram old faulty beliefs and habits permanently through these groundbreaking neuropsychology tools.
($2,300 Value)
An Instant Support Network and Community
Amazing, inspirational and supportive women who are transforming their lives and relationships are waiting to meet you inside of the HIL private facebook group.
($1,997 Value)
Bonus HIL Advanced Trainings
The bonus courses and trainings are taught by professionals who don't offer one-on-one coaching. Get exclusive, hands-on education on everything from parenting to sexual desire to hypnosis from the best in the world!
($2,997 Value)
Total HIL Value At Least $9,000
Total HIL Investment Only $997
Here's Proof That The Happily In Love Program Works!
I have the power to change things and I can't think you enough for that!
“I just can't thank you enough for this course and all the resources that you give. I feel like there's truly been a transformation in my life where I feel like before I was having resentment and just wanting to fix things in therapy, and that wasn't something that my husband wanted to do, which built up more resentment and it was frustrating. And I felt like if he would just go to counseling, that we would be able to be fine. But you've shown me how I have the power to change things by myself. And just for example, the other day, um, we had a disagreement and it led to some hard feelings. And after probably about three hours of stewing on these feelings, I remembered what I learned from you. And I took some time to myself and I went and reframed them and I came back with a completely different perspective. And it helped me so much to see that the power to change my relationship truly is in my hands. And for that, I can't thank you enough.”
“Just in the first two modules I started to have some major aha moments. The communication and connection has already improved. My husband even pointed out that something had changed in me!” - Lisa S.
THE turning point in my life...
"My life is completely and totally different. I went from feeling powerless to powerful beyond measure. Valerie’s coaching is invaluable. I truly feel that this was THE turning point in my life thus far. Valerie has truly changed my life and the lives of my husband and children forever."
We are closer than ever!
"After working with Valerie our marriage just works so much better. We don't raise our voices at each other anymore - and we resolve problems much quicker, our anxieties have almost disappeared and we don't get defensive anymore. Now, we can focus on creating success & happiness in the rest of our life now that we are secure and happy with our relationship! We have reinvested in our relationship, we are more committed and closer than ever!"
Rediscovered my love...
"I’m a stay at home mom to twins and a child with autism. I was constantly busy but felt unfulfilled. After the program, I feel clearer in my purpose and confident. I rediscovered my love of writing and am using my writing to create policy change for my son and other children with disabilities! If you feel like you are just surviving but not thriving, I highly recommend taking this course."
It will change your life!
"The class has made me a stronger and more confident woman. I believe in myself and learned how to give myself a break. I would recommend this program to anyone who is questioning if they are living the fullest life they can, wondering if there's more for them, and how to get it. Be open and go for it, it will change your life."
Helped me shift right away!
"Even just one session with Valerie gave me a new level of insight to what has been keeping me stuck and keeping me from getting the results I want in both my relationship and finances. She gave me a tool that was powerful in helping me shift my behaviors right away!"
Game-changer!
"Working with Valerie was a game changer for both my business and personal life. She helped me identify some items that were preventing me from experiencing happiness and success, and helped me overcome them. Valerie truly cares about her clients and is committed to doing what it takes to help them be successful. I had a record revenue month after meeting with Valerie and I am so grateful for the opportunity to coach with her."
“Before the program I was ready to leave my marriage. I felt lost and unloved. Now my marriage is back on track, and I'm happy for the first time in ages!”
I was very hesitant to invest in myself and my relationship in such a way. But, it's been a mind opening experience. Not only has my relationship improved buI am now off of my stress anxiety medication for two months and I've been on that for at least 10 years. I have a total new mindset of realizing I can only handle what is in my control. That's big!
Lisa S.
“Before the program I felt hopeless and desperate. As soon as I started the Relationship Mindset Bootcamp I become hopeful, excited and my self-awareness increased as I began to manage my thoughts and emotions. My relationships were improving in all areas of my life. I know now this is a life-long beautiful mindset and relationship program to refer to again, and again" - Amy Jensen.”
Now let's get real...
The Happily In Love program is definitely NOT for Everyone
HIL Members say the Happily In Love program is the most complete, comprehensive and effective way to create transformation in their relationships and lives.
It’s BIG on action and transformation. It focuses on creating change at the core so that you get results quicker and easier than you could on your own. And then you get all of the support, tools and steps you need to implement what you learn.
It approaches relationship transformation like no other training, coach or counselor out there. (And we have the success stories to prove it!)
But...it’s definitely NOT for everyone.
If you’re looking for a magic button or quick way to change your partner and you’re not willing to look at yourself...HIL is not for you.
HIL is designed to show you how to create transformation, happiness, and change in your life and relationship from the inside out. So if you’re out to blame others or try to change your partner, keep looking.
If you’re thinking that you’ll just listen to the videos and not actually do the work and complete the exercises, HIL probably isn’t right for you…
To get the most out of HIL you must dig deep, discover the hidden crap that’s keeping you stuck, and actually complete the step-by-step exercises and activities I give to you.
Finally, if you just want to complain, make excuses and not take action, HIL is definitely not for you. HIL is targeted towards women who are ready for authentic transformation and who are willing to take responsibility for their relationship and life!
That said, if you’re ready to reignite your relationship and start living your happiest and most authentic life AND you’re willing to put in the necessary time and effort to make your love vision real...then here’s your chance!
What Sets the Happily In Love Program Apart From Any Other Program?
01- Lifetime Access: Retake The Program Again and Again, For FREE!
The path to mastery - New Level New Devil. Our brains aren’t ready to hear everything. So once your relationship starts to transform and you start to change and grow new limits will appear - no worries - just go back to Modules 1 & 2 and clear this limits so you can move to the next level of happiness and whatever you want in your life and relationship.
02 - Anytime - Anywhere
No taking out time for babysitter, trying to find time for a therapist visit, making your partner go, arguing after the appointment, trial and error of therapist after therapist trying to find the right one.
03 - Love Within & Love Between
An individual therapist will only focus on your individual needs - possibly pushing you away from your partner even further. A couple's therapist will only focus on the relationship needs - leaving you feeling resentful and unfulfilled. This program is the only program that focuses both on your individual needs and your relationship needs - TO ENSURE a wholehearted and holistic TRUE LOVE.
04- Long-lasting Habit & Pattern Change
HIL is the ONLY program that uses the latest neuroscience and psychology to help you create long-lasting habit and behavior change in your relationship and life. This is the KEY to ultimate success.
05 - No Fluff. Only Results.
HIL helps you get to the ROOT of the problem quickly, so you're not wasting years of frustration trying to fix surface level issues. You get the 20% of activities that will give you 80% of the results. That means less time wasting energy and your happiness - and more time in connection & joy!
Join the Happily In Love Program To Repair, Revive and Reignite Your Relationship - And Become The Happiest, Moving Loved Woman You Know!
This program isn't just about healing your relationship and creating a passionate true love (although you'll get that)...
But the Happily In Love program is about becoming the very best version of yourself. It's about finding emotional freedom, discovering how to heal from past hurts & wounds, and how to live courageously with love and passion.
Imagine how your life will change when you no longer have to waste energy and frustrations on your relationship - and you can start focusing on your other dreams.
As you become the confident, loving and peaceful woman you are meant to be ....you'll also be positively impacting everyone around you (your children, your parents, you partner, your community and even more).
...AND, BECAUSE I WANT YOU TO HAVE ALL THE INFORMATION YOU NEED, YOUR MOST POPULAR QUESTIONS, ANSWERED:
The Happily In Love program was specifically crafted to help women who want to have the most fulfilling and happiest relationship (even if their partner isn't willing to change). What makes THIS program different than any other program (or therapist) you've ever worked with can be broken into three distinct reasons:
#1. MINDSET & PATTERN CHANGE - Beginning with an OBSESSION with why couple's counseling didn't work more than 50% of the time, and why some succeed and others fail, I set out to create a program that will help you cause a BREAKTHROUGH in results for yourself and your relationship. I've spent hundreds of thousands of dollars learning the latest neuroscience and relationship techniques and science to help you rewire your brain for incredible results in your relationship and life!
#2. A FOCUS ON THE 5% - Inside HIL, I give you ONLY the tools, techniques, and resources YOU NEED to succeed. I don't waste your time on filler and junk that doesn't move you or your relationship forward. You get the 5% of activities that generate 95% of your results!
#3. LOVE BETWEEN & LOVE WITHIN - You'll find a lot of programs out there that focus on building your relationship (the love between) that mostly focuses on "intimacy skills". You'll also find tons of programs that focus on building your self-love, confidence, or mindset (the love within). The problem is YOU CAN'T CREATE A HEALTHY, LOVING RELATIONSHIP without both of these pieces. HIL is the ONLY program that combines Love Within and Love Between so you can create a WHOLE relationship!
Doesn't matter. This program is built to help women take their power back and create transformation in their relationships and lives - even if their partner isn't on board. A relationship is a system - and once one part of that system changes, the other parts must change and adapt as well.
So, it's not about getting your partner to do the program with you or to change, it's about ONE of you take action to create transformation and then allowing the safety and space for your partner to follow. That's what HIL will do!
Absolutely. Although the material is created for just the woman - I see no problem with both of you learning and growing together. Additionally, the Ultimate Couple's Bundle Bonus includes a Communication & 5-Day Relationship Rescue Kit that is specifically designed for couples to complete together - so this may be the best place to start. PLEASE NOTE: The Private Facebook Community is for women only.
Hey, I get it. Time is valuable to me too! I have two young kids and I'm always trying to figure out what belongs and doesn't belong on my "to-do" list. But, here's the deal - "I don't have time" actually means "It's not a priority".
So, what do you think would change in your relationship if you did make your relationship a priority?
You have LIFETIME ACCESS to the Happily In Love program. And most of my clients go back and refer to the modules again and again. This isn't a program that you rush to complete. You can take your time and go at your own pace.
So, if you can commit just 15-20 minutes a day 3-4x a week, you will begin to see a whole new level of transformation in your relationship and your life. I highly recommend that you go ahead and put the time on your calendar NOW - so as soon as you enroll you can start creating change!
About 50% of the HIL members were separated when they joined the program. They decided no matter what happened in their relationship they were going to put EVERYTHING into becoming the best version of themselves.
Some of them have since reunited with their partners and have a stronger relationship than ever before. Some have decided that the relationship was unhealthy and have completely ended the relationship. ALL of them are happier, more fulfilled and proud of themselves for the changes and transformations they created in their lives.
I can't promise you that your partner will come running back to you (or that you would even want them to), what I can promise you is that you will have the confidence, self-love, clarity and inner peace you NEED to reignite your current relationship, let go of it with confidence, or to create a brand new healthy and loving relationship.
The program will help you to move past the hurt, resentment and self-esteem number that infidelity can cause. It will also help you determine if your partner is trustworthy and if the relationship is worth trying to save. Lastly, the Infidelity LIVE WORKSHOP BONUS will help you create a plan for healing, move forward, and rebuilding trust.
Yes - you can get started for as little as $197 today!! But, the fact that you’re on this page means that you KNOW you need a program like HIL to truly transform your relationship and life. And, the fact that you’re on this page also means that you’ve not yet found that program (or therapist or coach), because if you did, you wouldn’t be here now, right?
If this applies to you, what you’re about to read is incredibly important, not just for your relationship, but for every area of your life.
If you want to join HIL, and you think you cannot afford it then it’s possible you’re in a place of Desirability VS Feasibility. Meaning, you desire to transform your relationship, you know this is the RIGHT program, but you don’t think it’s financially feasibly for you, and what you do next will determine what ultimately happens in your relationship and life.
Consider this, the fact that you think it’s not feasible is because you’re still working from old limiting beliefs (ya know, the same limiting beliefs keep you stuck) and notice that’s sabotaging you and you didn’t even know that until I just pointed it out.
Here’s The Truth:
You have to ask yourself this one vital question that will determine what type of relationship you will create. The one question is:
“Am I going to be 100% responsible for my own happiness or am I not?”
Look, whatever’s going on in your relationship right now - it’s not 100% your fault, it may not even be 50% your fault --- but the truth is it’s your RESPONSIBILITY.
Which means that you have the power to change the relationship and your own happiness, because we know that you’re not where you want to be today, and you now recognize you’re responsible for that. And, if you really want to be happily in love, you now know what it’s going to be YOU who creates that.
The Question Has Changed:
If you’re going to truly be 100% responsible for your happiness and relationship, the question is no longer can I afford it, it’s now, “HOW do I be 100% responsible and MAKE this happen?”
If you’re going to stop here and do nothing different, do you know what that means? It means you won’t stretch yourself out of your comfort zone, it means your driven by fear, it means it's going to be incredibly difficult to truly create any type of transformation or change in your relationship or life.
So, let’s go back to what I said was the most important question you could ask yourself.
Are you going to be 100% responsible for the success of your relationship and life?
If you are, then get enrolled in HIL and if you’re not, you can click off now.
It won’t work for me because my spouse isn’t willing or ready to change...
It won’t work for me because therapy or the other courses I’ve tried never worked before…
It won’t work for me because I don’t have the confidence and strength to continue this struggle…
If it was this simple, I would have it all figured out already…
Maybe you’ve tried therapy before. Maybe you’ve read books, podcasts, soaked up free material…or maybe you’ve even spent hundreds or thousands of dollars on another course that didn’t work.
This is not just another course. The Happily In Love program is a brain-based, heart-centered system that creates long-lasting transformation.
The program is a proven system with a built in community and highly effective coach that takes women from frustrated and lonely to irresistibly happy and loved.
The way I see it you have two choices (1) do nothing or (2) join HIL and take the first step towards truly transforming your relationship and life.
But you must know, if you choose nothing...then nothing changes.
BUT, if you already know that you want to repair, revive and reignite your relationship and life then your choice is obvious: join us inside HIL and start your transformation to becoming the irresistibly happy and in-love woman you know you were meant to be.
Simply click the button below and my I will be waiting for you on the inside!
But if you’re still on the fence, wondering whether to take the leap, let me share one last though with you, maybe you’re thinking…
"It all sounds great, but I just don't have the money, energy, or time right now"
...then you’re not making the choice at all. You’re letting your circumstances make your choices for you.
And as you know by now, that’s not how the irresistibly happy woman operates.
You see, our “circumstances” are mostly in our heads. They’re “time and money” excuses we make because we’re not willing to step up and play a bigger game.
Love, happiness and success don’t care about your circumstances.
Success always find a way. Greatness always plays a way bigger game.
That’s what the most irresistibly happy women understand. And now, so do you.
I get it. I know you don't want to take relationship advice from just anyone...and good on you, because the wrong advice can kill your relationship.
I'm a trained neuropsychotherapist, relationship expert and neurocoach...with a proven track record of success.
I'm known as the expert on helping women heal their relationships, even when they’ve tried everything else, by giving them my proven system based on her unique expertise in neuropsychology, energy psychology and marital therapy that leads to quick, long-lasting transformation, growth and healing to your relationship and life.
And I'm just a mom and wife working around chaotic schedules while striving to live a fun, loving and meaningful life. I'm on a search just like you to truly live my best life, leave a mark on the world, and positively impact others around me.
I have a bachelors degree from Ohio State University (go Bucks!), a Masters in Professional Counseling, countless certifications in coaching, energy psychology, neuroscience, and decades of experience helping women and couples truly transform their lives.
But it didn’t start this way. I used to blame others for my circumstances. I used to want to change everyone around me (especially my husband) and I was unhappy with who I was and my relationships.
I’ve been with my husband for 18 years and I’ve been exactly where you are. About 10 years ago, my husband and I used to fight constantly, we couldn’t connect and I wondered if I was still in love with him - wondered if the marriage could ever be fixed.
I thought if he would just change - then everything would be better. So...I went and got my Masters in counseling and couples counseling so I could help him change! :)
Unfortunately, the skills and tools I learned around relationships didn’t work (even after spending over $300K). They didn’t work for my marriage and they only worked on about 50% of the couples that I worked with (that’s the average success rate of a couple’s counselor - by the way).
Until I discovered groundbreaking neuropsychology and energy psychology research that showed we can actually change our subconscious programming. I started using this information in my own life and then used it with my clients to raise their self-love, manage their emotions, and release triggers, resentments and anger from their marriage so they could actually start to fall back in-love with themselves and their partners (and their partners were starting to adore and appreciate them more than ever before!)
Once I incorporated this into my counseling and into my own marriage things improved drastically! Anxieties, frustrations and relationships stressors went down and the success rate of my counseling clients went up to 96%!!
Now I get to help countless amazing women repair their relationships quickly so they can feel adored and cherished and they can stop wasting their energy and start focusing on reaching their dreams and goals in other areas of their lives.
After helping countless incredible women go from struggling to thriving relationships, I have learned that it’s less about learning relationships skills and more about taking action and creating transformation and change from the inside out.
Still Here? You Owe This To Yourself..
The mistake most people make is they think the “do-it-yourself” route is cheaper. What they don’t take into account is how SLOW and INEFFECTIVE that can be.
Or worse…
..the damage that is happening in your relationship with every “false” step you take.
If you're still here, you owe it to yourself to answer these questions honestly.
Wouldn’t it take so much stress off of you if you could just follow a step-by-step proven framework that will not only transform your relationship but will transform your life?
How much would it be worth over a lifetime if the ONLY thing you got from this program was the ability to have a conversation with your partner without an immediate argument?
How much would it be worth over a lifetime if the ONLY thing you got from this program was to feel more confident and loved from within?
How much would it be worth over a lifetime if the ONLY thing you got from this was the tools to reprogram your brain for any obstacle in your way?
How much would it be worth over a lifetime if the ONLY thing you got from this program was to let go of past resentments in your relationship?
How much would it be worth over a lifetime if the ONLY thing you got from this program was to feel more "in-love" with your partner and find your own happiness?
$1,000? $50,000, $100,000?? Priceless?
But, here’s the deal - if you put in the effort, take the action, and follow the step-by-step map that I give you in the program - I can promise you’ll gain much, much more!
You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Don’t miss your chance to finally create the dream relationship and life you desire and DESERVE!
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