THE RELATIONSHIP BOOTCAMP


One Weekend to Stop The Cycle, Heal the Distance, and Lead a New Chapter in Your Marriage.

Virtual * September 20-21, 2025

The Same Relational Life Therapy Methods Trusted by Celebrities and Relationship Experts Worldwide

🔥 ONLY 20 SPOTS AVAILABLE - LIMITED TIME OFFER 🔥

Stop The Cycle ✦ Heal The Distance ✦ Lead A New Chapter In Your Marriage ✦ Stop The Cycle ✦ Heal The Distance ✦ Lead A New Chapter In Your Marriage ✦

You Both Want the Same Thing... You Just Don't Know How to Create It Together


Finally, learn the proven methods that help couples move from disconnection to deep partnership.

 

For Her: You're tired of feeling lonely in your own marriage. You want to feel truly seen, cherished, and emotionally connected. You crave conversations that go deeper than logistics and a partnership that energizes rather than drains you.

 

For Him: You want to feel appreciated for your efforts instead of criticized. You'd love to make her happy but nothing you try seems to work. You miss the ease and joy you used to have together.

 

The Truth: You both want love, connection, and partnership. You're just stuck in patterns that create the opposite of what you're trying to build.

What if you could learn the exact methods that help couples break free from these patterns and create the relationship you both actually want?


The Method That Works

 

The Relationship Bootcamp™ was created by Terry Real, author of "US: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship" and creator of the Relational Life Therapy.

 

As a master Relational Life Practitioner and Bootcamp facilitator - I'm proud to bring you this life-changing weekend that not only changed my own marriage and life....but has changed the lives of thousands across the world!

"Nothing short of miraculous... quite simply changed my life."

 

— Bradley Cooper on Terry Real's Relational Life Therapy

"This work is vital for those of us who seek true intimacy.”

 

— Gwyneth Paltrow on Terry Real's Relational Life Therapy

"Helped guide me to the river of a sustaining life."

 

— Bruce Springsteen on Terry Real's transformation methods

This proven method has transformed thousands of relationships worldwide.

With my mentor Terry Real during advance Relational Life Therapy & Bootcamp Facilitation Training

Meet Your Facilitator Who Will Guide Your Transformation

Valerie Kolick, MA is a trained psychotherapist turned relationship coach with close to 20 years of experience. She has been personally trained by Terry Real and holds the highest certification in Relational Life Therapy after a decade of study. 

 

You're not just learning about this life-transforming work - you're learning from someone who has mastered it professionally and in her own marriage.  

What This 48-Hours Will Do For You..

 

 

🎯 Understanding Each Other's Patterns

For couples: Discover how your individual "adaptive child" patterns trigger each other—and how to help each other's "wise adult" show up instead. Finally understand why you keep having the same fights.

đź’Ž Communication That Actually Works

For both: Master Terry Real's proven techniques for having conversations that create connection instead of distance. Learn to speak in ways that make your partner feel safe to open up.

🔥 Breaking the Negative Cycle in Real-Time

For couples: Learn to recognize when you're both getting triggered—and instantly shift to a place where you can actually hear each other and work together.

🌟 Creating Emotional Safety Together

For both: Discover how to create the kind of safety where you can both be vulnerable, authentic, and truly intimate—without fear of judgment or attack.

đź’ť Your Personalized Relationship Roadmap

For couples: Leave with a clear plan for how to support each other's growth and create the partnership you both actually want.

 

Why This Weekend Works for Both of You

For Her: You'll finally feel heard and understood. You'll learn how to express your needs in ways that invite connection instead of defensiveness. You'll discover how to create the emotional intimacy you've been craving.

 

For Him: You'll understand what she actually needs (and it's not what you think). You'll learn how to be the hero in your relationship again. You'll feel appreciated and respected for who you are.

 

For Both: You'll stop walking on eggshells. You'll rediscover why you fell in love. You'll become a team again instead of adversaries.

This isn't about changing each other—it's about bringing out the best in each other.

My partner and I both came out of relationships and families with poor communication skills. This bootcamp helped give us the tools needed to discuss openly, reconnect and not react.

Robin

Choose Your Path to Transformation

Limited to 20 Spots. First Come, First Served. 

 

NOTE: This is a LIVE virtual event taking place on September 20-21st, 2025 from 9 am - 5:30pm ET. Recordings will NOT be available to protect the privacy and confidentiality of all participants. 

Individual

Save Your Spot Before It's Gone

$550

One Time Payment

  • Two-Day Live Online Bootcamp

  • Expert Facilitator & Small Group Space

  • Relational Life Toolkit (Value $97)

  • Fight Less, Connect More Program (Value $297)

  • Relational Skills, Tools, Coaching & Exercises

Compare this to: 

 

-> $200+ per session for couples therapy (10 sessions = $2000+)

-> $3,000+ for other relationship intensives

-> $25,000+ for divorce proceedings

-> Decades of the same patterns and frustrations

Grab your spot before it's sold out! Bonuses valued over $400!!

Transform Now

Couple

Save Your Spot Before It's Gone

$1050

One Time Payment

  • Two-Day Live Online Bootcamp for both Partners

  • Expert Facilitator & Small Group Space

  • Relational Life Toolkit (Value $97)

  • Fight Less, Connect More Program (Value $297)

  • Relational Skills, Tools, Coaching & Exercises

Compare this to: 

 

-> $200+ per session for couples therapy (10 sessions = $2000+)

-> $3,000+ for other relationship intensives

-> $25,000+ for divorce proceedings

-> Decades of the same patterns and frustrations

Grab your spot before it's sold out! Bonuses valued over $400!!

Transform Now

Real Stories of Relational Transformation

We came in barely speaking. By Sunday, we remembered why we fell in love. The tools actually work, and we both felt heard for the first time in years.

Mark & Jennifer, Married 12 years

"After working with Valerie our marriage just works so much better. We don't raise our voices at each other anymore - and we resolve problems much quicker, our anxieties have almost disappeared and we don't get defensive anymore. Now, we can focus on creating success & happiness in the rest of our life now that we are secure and happy with our relationship! We have reinvested in our relationship, we are more committed and closer than ever!​"

Carolyn & Brad

It will change your life!

 

"The class has made me a stronger and more confident woman. I believe in myself and learned how to give myself a break. I would recommend this program to anyone who is questioning if they are living the fullest life they can, wondering if there's more for them, and how to get it. Be open and go for it, it will change your life."

Wendy

What The Weekend Looks Like

A powerful, immersive experience guided by a proven framework and expert facilitation — all from the comfort of your own home.

Live Virtual Event

September 20-21st, 2025

9 am - 5:30 pm ET

What's Included Inside the Bootcamp

Saturday Morning: Understanding Your Patterns Together
You'll both discover how your individual "adaptive child" strategies are creating unintended distance. No blame, no shame—just clarity about what's really happening.

 

Saturday Afternoon: Learning Each Other's Language
Master Terry Real's communication methods that help you both feel heard and understood. Practice having the conversations you've been avoiding.

 

Sunday Morning: Creating Your New Dynamic
Learn how to support each other's growth and bring out each other's best selves. Discover how to be teammates instead of opponents.

 

Sunday Afternoon: Your Roadmap Home
Leave with specific tools and a clear plan for maintaining your newfound connection. Plus ongoing support resources.

 

By Sunday evening, you'll both feel like you're on the same side again.

 

 

  • Live Virtual 2-Day Event

    Two full days of live facilitation and coaching using the RLT method

  • Relational Tools

    Relational tools, language frameworks, and real-time practice that you’ll use for life

  • Live Coaching

    Deep-dive group coaching sessions in a safe, intimate container and to take you to that light-bulb moment!

  • Healing Environment

    Supportive, guided reflection exercises that bring your patterns to light and create real momentum

This is for You If You Know Something Needs to Change - and You're Ready to Lead That Shift

  • You’re in a relationship that matters to you — but right now, it feels strained, distant, or stuck in painful patterns.
  • You’re craving deeper connection, more honest communication, and the safety to be fully yourself again.
  • You’ve tried to fix things — through therapy, reading, talking it out — but the same issues keep resurfacing.
  • You’re both ready to work on the relationship — or at least open to exploring a new path forward.
  • Even if only one of you is ready right now, you know that change starts somewhere — and you’re willing to go first.
  • You want tools that actually work — not just more conversations that go nowhere.
  • You’re ready to stop replaying the past and start creating a healthier, more connected future — together or individually.

This space is for couples who are ready to show up with honesty, courage, and a willingness to grow.

It’s also open to individuals who are ready to lead the reset — to show up powerfully and create a new dynamic, even if their partner isn’t there yet.

 

This is about building something better — not just staying together, but healing and reconnecting in a way that finally feels good again.

This Isn't Another Therapy Session...or Feel-Good Retreat


This is where old dynamics end.

You won’t leave with more insights.


You’ll leave with an embodied relational reset — rooted in tools, support, and the authority to lead the relationship you want.

This is the work that shifts everything — for good.

Because You’re Not Here for More Hoping.

You’re here because you’re done pretending.
You’re here because deep down, you know there’s more available — and you’re ready to claim it.

When you stop waiting and start leading from your highest self, the entire relationship shifts.


Even if they don’t change. Even if it’s messy.
You are the reset. And it starts now.

 

Choose Your Path to Transformation

Limited to 20 Spots. First Come, First Served. 

 

NOTE: This is a LIVE virtual event taking place on May 17-18th from 9 am - 5pm ET. Recordings will NOT be available to protect the privacy and confidentiality of all participants. 

Individual

Save Your Spot Before It's Gone

$550

One Time Payment

  • Two-Day Live Online Bootcamp

  • Expert Facilitator & Small Group Space

  • Relational Life Toolkit (Value $97)

  • Fight Less, Connect More Program (Value $297)

  • Relational Skills, Tools, Coaching & Exercises

Grab your spot before it's sold out! Bonuses valued over $350!!

Transform Now

Couple

Save Your Spot Before It's Gone

$1050

One Time Payment

  • Two-Day Live Online Bootcamp for both Partners

  • Expert Facilitator & Small Group Space

  • Relational Life Toolkit (Value $97)

  • Fight Less, Connect More Program (Value $297)

  • Relational Skills, Tools, Coaching & Exercises

Grab your spot before it's sold out! Bonuses valued over $400!!

Transform Now

Frequently Asked Questions

What if my partner isn't on board - can I still join?

Absolutely. While the Bootcamp is designed for couples, many participants attend solo — and experience powerful shifts. Because when you show up differently, the entire dynamic begins to change. You’ll leave with the tools and clarity to lead the reset, even if you’re going first.  

How do I get my partner to join with me?

Not everyone is ready for such a powerful, transformational weekend. And that's okay. However, I created this FREE "Partner Invitation Toolkit" to help you have the conversation!

We've already tried therapy. How is this different?

Therapy often focuses on insight — this weekend focuses on action.
The Marriage Reset Bootcamp is based on the Relational Life Therapy (RLT) framework created by best-selling author Terry Real (Us), and is designed for real-time transformation. You won’t just talk about your challenges — you’ll learn how to shift them, fast.

We're currently in therapy or coaching, will this still help?

Yes — and it will likely accelerate what you’re already working on.

The 2-Day Relationship Bootcamp doesn’t replace therapy or coaching. Instead, it gives you a powerful immersion that helps you move past the places where traditional talk-based approaches can get stuck.

 

This experience focuses on real-time relational transformation — using the Relational Life Therapy (RLT) framework created by Terry Real, which combines deep emotional insight with practical, embodied tools.

 

You won’t just learn why you’re stuck…
You’ll learn how to get unstuck — together.

 

Many couples who are already in therapy find that this weekend brings clarity, momentum, and breakthrough that ripples forward into their ongoing work

Can I get a refund if something comes up? 

Because this is a live, limited-capacity experience with high demand, all sales are final. If something urgent arises, please let us know asap and we can work to enroll you into another upcoming bootcamp, coaching or an online course. 

This feels like a big investment. How do I know it's worth it? 

We get it — investing in your relationship can feel like a stretch, especially when things already feel uncertain.

But here’s what we know:
The cost of staying stuck — emotionally, mentally, and even financially — is far greater.

Think about what disconnection, resentment, or constant tension is already costing you:
Your peace. Your productivity. Your ability to enjoy each other.
That slow burn of emotional distance has a price — and it adds up.

This Bootcamp is a chance to change that trajectory in just two days.
To gain tools, healing, and clarity that can reshape how you relate for the rest of your life.

If it feels like a stretch, it might be the most important one you ever make — not just for your relationship, but for yourself.

What if we're too far gone? Can a weekend really help us? 

Here’s the truth: if you’re still here — reading this — you haven’t given up.
And no, a weekend can’t fix everything. But it can give you the clarity, tools, and momentum to finally start moving in the right direction.

This isn’t about being perfect. It’s about being real — and learning how to reconnect with honesty, intention, and emotional safety.
If you're willing to show up with courage, this weekend will meet you there.

 

Whill we be sharing personal things with a group?

In Relational Life Therapy (RLT), we have the "Pass" rule, which you can use at anytime. And we actually celebrate it's use, because it means you're protecting your own boundaries! You’ll never be forced to share anything you're not comfortable with.
This space is intimate, supportive, and designed to be emotionally safe. Most couples and individuals find that the group dynamic offers unexpected breakthroughs — hearing others reflect what you're feeling can be incredibly validating and healing.

What is Relational Life Therapy (RLT)?

RLT is a powerful, blended type of couples therapy that is profound and transformative. I am a master certified RLT practitioner who wraps this technique with neuroscience and somatic tools. You can learn more about RLT here: 

Where is this hosted? What do I need to have access to?

The LIVE online bootcamp will be hosted via Zoom on a secure platform. You can join from your laptop in the privacy of your home with internet access. However, why not take a weekend for yourself and book a hotel room that is quiet, private and allows you space away from your every day life - so you can have the full immersive experience!

What's the schedule like? Do I/we need to attend both days live?

We meet online over two full days: May 17–18, 2025, from 10:00 AM–6:00 PM ET.
There will be short breaks and a longer break mid-day to help you integrate. Live attendance is required for the coaching and group dynamics, replays will NOT be provided in order to protect the privacy and confidentiality of all participants. 

Is this for married couples only?

Not at all. This Bootcamp is for anyone in a committed partnership — married, long-term, or anywhere in between — who’s ready to rebuild connection and stop repeating the same patterns.

 

Partners and Individuals are welcome!

Will we get support after the weekend?

Your enrollment includes: A printable workbook to deepen your breakthroughs, and a guided audio primer to ground your nervous system. 

And while this is a standalone even, there will be an opportunity to continue the work after the bootcamp. 

How many spots are available?

The Bootcamp is intentionally capped at the 20 total participants to protect the integrity of the experience and to ensure everyone received the attention they deserve. Once the spots are filled, the doors will close - no exceptions.

This sounds powerful...but I'm scared to open things up. What if it makes things worse? 

That fear is valid — and it usually means you're exactly where the real work begins.

This isn’t about rehashing your past or ripping things open. It’s about learning how to move forward without blame, shutdowns, or spirals.
You’ll be guided by proven tools, a certified expert, and a supportive container designed to help you feel safe and steady — even in the hard moments.

Growth can feel uncomfortable. But staying stuck? That’s what really hurts.

An Invitation to a Brave Space

by Micky Scottbey Jones

Together we will create brave space

Because there is no such thing as a "safe space"...

We exist in the real world. 

We all carry scars and we have all caused wounds

In this space

We seek to turn down the volume of the outside world

We amplify voices that fight to be heard elsewhere

We call each other to more truth and love.

We have the right to start somewhere and continue to grow. 

We have the responsibility to examine what we think we know. 

We will not be perfect.

It will not always be what we wish it to be.

But

It will be our brave space together.

And

We will work on it side by side. 

Your Relationship Deserves Proven Methods

You both want love, connection, and partnership. You just need the right tools to create it together.

 

September 20-21st could be the weekend that changes everything.

 

Only 10 Couples Accepted

(up to 20 individuals)

 

$1050 per couple • $550 for individuals

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